An earlier version on this post appeared on Write on Sisters
a year ago.
Here in Arizona, spring isn’t as well-defined as it might be
in your part of the world. Here, we call it spring when our temps get above the
average 70 degrees of winter. For those three
days, before the 100’s begin, we have a version of spring. (Only kidding
about the three days. Lots of years we have several days.)
This year, a very unusual year, no doubt due to global
weirding, we had weeks of really
great spring weather. We kept the doors open in the daytime and shut them at
night. Just lovely!
Think about it. What is spring anyway, but a time of flowers
blooming in warmer air. So what does one call spring in a locale where there
are flowers all year long? Okay, so maybe there are different winter flowers and summer flowers--ones that can take
blast-furnace temperatures. Still . . .
As a child, spring in the Midwest meant SPRING CLEANING. Big
time. The venetian blinds came down, the rugs came up, and the house smelled of
Pine-Sol and lemon paste wax. It was grueling work, scrubbing hardwood floors
and wiping baseboards. No surface escaped my mother’s attention--which meant
the attention of my sister and me. My brother escaped the yearly ritual because
back in the day, boys didn’t do housework.
SPRING CLEANING is an odd rite. Funny, I thought, even then.
For most of the year, Mother wasn’t what you’d call “house proud”. Our place
was not a magazine spread. It wasn’t really dirty, but on a farm, you’re hard
pressed to keep the dust and mud from accumulating on surfaces. Dust was pretty
easy to ignore. Mud was regularly tracked in along with other malodorous
substances, but mostly that got cleaned up right away.
But for about a week after SPRING CLEANING, our home was a
joy to live in. Then, as life would have it, we lived in it, and it showed.
Sigh! All that work for … what?
Isn’t that metaphor for life? We occasionally clean out the
detritus of daily life from our minds, or sweep it into a corner for later
disposal. Still, more accumulates, piles up, and overtakes the surfaces of our
lives. We clean again, making space for more waste to fill the spaces just
cleaned up.
Oh, dear! That sounds all melancholy and such, but I don’t
mean it that way at all. As a writer, I love the accumulation of new junk,
dirt, stuff. That’s more to write about. And for a writer, spring cleaning is
just one way we sweep away and wash down our experiences as we transform them
into our novels, short stories, and plays.
All writers draw upon those past experiences, odd
characters, sights seen to bring truth to our work. What we remember we can use
to enliven and enrich text. So digging through the junk on the lookout for
treasures is rather exhilarating.
I’ve pondered why some parts of my past and some people are
so vivid and other parts and people, if remembered at all, are shadowy or even
forgotten.
We remember best what we emotionally connect with. Everyone
recalls where they were and how they felt on September 11, 2011. Images,
emotions, and reactions all remain sharp in our minds. Similarly, JFK’s
assassination and the Challenger Shuttle explosion were sharp, jagged times we
recall easily.
Fortunately, most of my life is not that traumatic. I am
blessed with a happy life filled with many loving friends and family. I have
more good memories than bad.
I can clearly see every bit of the day my first son was
born. The palpable joy of holding this precious new life in my arms after
getting to know him so well in the womb will stay with me forever. I loved
laboring. I remember those sharp thrusts and pushes. I revel in the memory of
the experience just as I did in the actuality.
There are teachers I adored (and not) whose personality
quirks are imprinted in my mind. Mrs. McNamara who was always tugging up her bra
strap with no awareness she did it. Mr. Sylvester’s facial tics when he was
nervous. Mr. Hill’s nervous laughter as we jerked our way around the parking
lot in Driver’s Ed.
How can these experiences not show up in our writing?
So I “spring clean” my mind periodically, searching for
sights, scents, and sounds that I might recycle into a new personality or
scene. But I also search for the emotion behind the memory, because the emotion
is why I still hang onto it. And if I can convey the emotion, maybe my readers
will connect as I do.
In this blog, I post about my writing and a bit about life
and relationships. Because, really, when you think about it, for an author,
they are often indistinguishable, intermingled, and intertwined.
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